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泛爱众　而亲仁　有余力　则学文

入 则 孝

父母呼　应勿缓　父母命　行勿懒

父母教　须敬听　父母责　须顺承

冬则温　夏则凊　晨则省　昏则定

出必告　反必面　居有常　业无变

事虽小　勿擅为　苟擅为　子道亏

物虽小　勿私藏　苟私藏　亲心伤

亲所好　力为具　亲所恶　谨为去

身有伤　贻亲忧　德有伤　贻亲羞

亲爱我　孝何难　亲憎我　孝方贤

亲有过　谏使更　怡吾色　柔吾声

谏不入　悦复谏　号泣随　挞无怨

亲有疾　药先尝　昼夜侍　不离床

丧三年　常悲咽　居处变　酒肉绝

丧尽礼　祭尽诚　事死者　如事生

出 则 弟

兄道友　弟道恭　兄弟睦　孝在中

财物轻　怨何生　言语忍　忿自泯

或饮食　或坐走　长者先　幼者后

长呼人　即代叫　人不在　己即到

称尊长　勿呼名　对尊长　勿见能

路遇长　疾趋揖　长无言　退恭立

骑下马　乘下车　过犹待　百步余

长者立　幼勿坐　长者坐　命乃坐

尊长前　声要低　低不闻　却非宜

进必趋　退必迟　问起对　视勿移

事诸父　如事父　事诸兄　如事兄

谨

朝起早　夜眠迟　老易至　惜此时

晨必盥　兼漱口　便溺回　辄净手

冠必正　纽必结　袜与履　俱紧切

置冠服　有定位　勿乱顿　致污秽

衣贵洁　不贵华　上循分　下称家

对饮食　勿拣择　食适可　勿过则

年方少　勿饮酒　饮酒醉　最为丑

步从容　立端正　揖深圆　拜恭敬

勿践阈　勿跛倚　勿箕踞　勿摇髀

缓揭帘　勿有声　宽转弯　勿触棱

执虚器　如执盈　入虚室　如有人

事勿忙　忙多错　勿畏难　勿轻略

斗闹场　绝勿近　邪僻事　绝勿问

将入门　问孰存　将上堂　声必扬

人问谁　对以名　吾与我　不分明

用人物　须明求　倘不问　即为偷

借人物　及时还　后有急　借不难

信

凡出言　信为先　诈与妄　奚可焉

话说多　不如少　惟其是　勿佞巧

奸巧语　秽污词　市井气　切戒之

见未真　勿轻言　知未的　勿轻传

事非宜　勿轻诺　苟轻诺　进退错

凡道字　重且舒　勿急疾　勿模糊

彼说长　此说短　不关己　莫闲管

见人善　即思齐　纵去远　以渐跻

见人恶　即内省　有则改　无加警

唯德学　唯才艺　不如人　当自砺

若衣服　若饮食　不如人　勿生戚

闻过怒　闻誉乐　损友来　益友却

闻誉恐　闻过欣　直谅士　渐相亲

无心非　名为错　有心非　名为恶

过能改　归于无　倘掩饰　增一辜

泛 爱 众

凡是人　皆须爱　天同覆　地同载

行高者　名自高　人所重　非貌高

才大者　望自大　人所服　非言大

己有能　勿自私　人所能　勿轻訾

勿谄富　勿骄贫　勿厌故　勿喜新

人不闲　勿事搅　人不安　勿话扰

人有短　切莫揭　人有私　切莫说

道人善　即是善　人知之　愈思勉

扬人恶　即是恶　疾之甚　祸且作

善相劝　德皆建　过不规　道两亏

凡取与　贵分晓　与宜多　取宜少

将加人　先问己　己不欲　即速已

恩欲报　怨欲忘　报怨短　报恩长

待婢仆　身贵端　虽贵端　慈而宽

势服人　心不然　理服人　方无言

亲 仁

同是人　类不齐　流俗众　仁者希

果仁者　人多畏　言不讳　色不媚

能亲仁　无限好　德日进　过日少

不亲仁　无限害　小人进　百事坏

余 力 学 文

不力行　但学文　长浮华　成何人

但力行　不学文　任己见　昧理真

读书法　有三到　心眼口　信皆要

方读此　勿慕彼　此未终　彼勿起

宽为限　紧用功　工夫到　滞塞通

心有疑　随札记　就人问　求确义

房室清　墙壁净　几案洁　笔砚正

墨磨偏　心不端　字不敬　心先病

列典籍　有定处　读看毕　还原处

虽有急　卷束齐　有缺坏　就补之

非圣书　屏勿视　蔽聪明　坏心志

勿自暴　勿自弃　圣与贤　可驯致

命自我作 福自我求

心好命又好 富贵直到老

命好心不好 福变为祸兆

心好命不好 祸转为福报

心命俱不好 遭殃且贫夭

心可挽乎命 最要存仁道

命实造於心 吉凶惟人召

信命不修心 阴阳恐虚矫

修心一听命 天地自相保

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The election

Malaysian Parliament was dissolved yesterday. The statement that our PM gave the day before was a lie. "A normal cabinet meeting will be conducted tomorrow and parliament won't be dissolved", this statement was published on the 12th Feb over major newspaper in Malaysia. A myth in my head: why the heck should he lied?



Well, that's none of my business anyways... Just felt a bit of upset. Maybe I'm not a political person, I don't know what kind of brain they are having. Perhaps they are looking at things from a different perspective than most of us? The normal naive person?



There is another myth: why is our PM choosed to dissolved te parliament when so many disadvantageous news arosen? The Lingam's case which indirectly points to the deterioration of the judiciary system's independence has caused a certain amount of votes to go away from BN already..... And then the HINDRAF... a lot a lot.... maybe the politician mind is different? or they are scared of outburst of more disadvantageous news?I don';t know.... haha, I'm not a politician. I'm just an unqualified voter... Underage.. haha

I'm awaiting the war of posters and banners! HAHHAHAHA

They are so gonna mess up the town!

Gong Xi Fa Cai

My friends came over to my place at around 11:40 pm. Every time also like that that it became a norm for them to visit my house this late, haha.... too bad that playing the piano this late will disturb neighbours.... can't fulfill their wish..... =P

A not-too-bad year for me. I won around Rm7 just now playing cards with them. It was fun though it wasn't right to gamble but fuck it, it's new year! so, who cares? This is one thing that Chinese can't eliminate, gambling........ Actually gambling isn;t any of the heavy criminals, it doesn;t do any harm to anybody except the person who gamble him/herself. Hence sometimes i don't see the point why some people is so against gambler. The person who gamble should be wise enough to judge him/herself whether or not he/she should gamble. What they do is their responsibilities. What a thrid-party member can do is only to give guidance and advice, the others are all depending on the will, awareness and maturity of the gambler. is it fair enough to say it like this??

there is a proverb in cantonese: light gambling brings fun, obsessive gambling brings bankruptcy..

I am actually against the obsessive gambling. I couldn't see the reason why people willing to pay out their pay cheque to the gambling table. Statistics, has been used wisely by the banker to ensure a gambling table wins. the chinese saying: in 10 games, 9 are losses isn;t coming from nowhere....

As a social gambler, i am annoyed by those people who cease their family responsibility just to fulfill their desire for gambling. i wonder how a dead gambling table manage to tie some of the people around it for their whole life, even after bankruptcy. ....

anyway, this is new year........ it wouldn;t be right for me to complaint too much.... haha..... happy Lunar new Year everyone! gong xi fa cai!

Lust.Caution.

Hoho... I have got myself a new home in Ara Damansara. It's a condominium. Although rental rather expensive, but can void traffic jam and with all the facilities, it's worth the price. February, a totally different lifestyle already.

I have just watched the uncensored "Lust.Caution".

My feeling:

• does the assasination serve any purpose?
• manipulation of woman? no doubt, a brilliant tactic, but the hurt incurred, infinity.
• are there no other way to retrieve liberty except the method used?
• are they even educated enough to perform those kind of stupid yet not productive assasination?
• indeed, a very touching sense of loyalty to the country.
• cruelty of human..... sacrifice the others for their own vision?
• marriage, a product of love?

i wonder, what made the actor and actress sacrifice so much for the movie. But, those scenes are essential in carrying out the whole movie. really.

My days, after exam

A real stressful months has gone....... *sigh of relief*

I don't know if this applied to all my other colleagues, but this was really how i feel before passing the internal assessment. A group 3 has been created to take in people who is inferior to the 75% passing marks for 2 consecutive times. And the result, for TAE, 7 out of 14 passed. I'm glad that I'm one of them. =)

But it was really disheartening to hear this from Mr Low: I am a little bit surprised on you, you didn't did it up to our expectation.

My god, I have already tried my best, and I am actually receiving this comment from my instructor. But it's ok, it's some good pressure on me, maybe I should try much harder next time?

I bet you couldn't imagine my happiness when the result was announced the other day... this is really important for me... I want to stay in group 2!

well, waived away the internal assessment, here comes the real EASA examination on the 24th of MArch.... The whole of the last week of March is being marked down as the exam date... so, yeah, gonna go through another hell type of life again.. how pathetic? but, thats a must, to ensure my path is paved nicely......

We managed to have some fun for the day right after the exam on tuesday. We went for Chicken Buffet in Sunway Pyramid. Amilian took a lot of photos.... but i couldn't get from her.... What to do, my phone is still the lousy L7. The buffet isn't that nice, the food was only average, but we can all we can, so thats really satisfying. Quite worth it for rm19. Eating is fun.

The next day, The ONE UTAMA trip. We went there for movie. Actually our initial plan was to watch Gabrielle, but, due to some circumstances, haha, we landed in GSC Hall 3 for Cloverfield. That was really an EXTRAORDINARY movie!

Can you imagine watching a camcorder in the cinema? My god, that made us feel dizzy. Maybe that's a new style of filming a film, but i cannot accept it. For me, that's a really lousy method. It made the whole movie looked silly and low class. The story wasn't narrated well enough. A lot of things left unexplained. And what we were seeing was the "running away" process of the people in phobia. I can see people walking out from the cinema half way through. I can see people have those kind of vomiting action because of the 'newage' filming method. There was no ending for the movie. everyone was anticipating something else when the movie stop, and everyone was left stunt with a big 'O' mouth when the lights were turned on. No one actually moved. I could hear some sarcastic hand clapping..... Oh dear. A THX movie. A real disappointment. If I were to rate this movie, I will give it a 2, out of 10. The director Mat Steeve, will never ever get any visit from me to his movies.

Everybody complaint after watching the movie, and you know what happen to the one who bought the ticket.... haha......

Watching drama series at home is even more entertaining than going for the stupid Cloverfield.
It costs me rm11 to watch that show. Gosh!

p/s: ahchao: happy birthday! (17th Jan)

My wish, My list

Will a feeling of disgust of a person towards another a fake disgust?

Do you even care if your disgust towards a person is a real or fake disgust? How possibly you will have a fake disgust towards a person? Omg, I don't know what am i trying to say.

Disregard that.

Haha, here comes my wishlist for the year 2008:

1) pass all my EASA modular examinations!
2) pass my grade 8 piano, with merit/distinction =P
3) get a convenient, good and affordable house to move in
4) get salay increment, be financially established!
5) a brand new piano!
6) meet up a friend......................
7) good speaker for my pc
8) more free time to relax and sleep, to indulge myself with games
9) a convenient swimming pool ( let me swim! ), have been too far from swimming pool
10) less trouble to come about especially human-to-human problems
11) a new bag
12) a new handphone
13) happy and enjoyable 2008!

*world peace* LOL

happy New year everyone!

Christmas?

It's 12:00 am now and I am sitting in front of the computer at home. How pathetic?!

My parents picked me back from Subang today. They were so happened to be there and I have mistakenly taken my sister book there, so, yeah, I am back. But, it made no difference as I will also celebrate my Christmas at home. LOL. Wei Kai can't get his mind off of celebrating Christmas in the house. What to do? It is so packed out there. Traffic jam is a hell out there. But anyway, the environment will be real nice.

Nevermind, at least tomorrow night I'm attending my aunt's Christmas party and have a share on the turkey she offers. Wow. Haha. Leave that for tomorrow.

A special christmas gift for today! My landlord, Mr Wong called me today, at around 7:00pm, right before I came back here, and right before they all went out for dinner. i was informed that: I have to move! We all have to move! After staying in the nice house for like, 3 months? Oh dear, we have already signed the agreement for 2 years. Now not even 3 months yet and we were all informed to move out by the mid of February. I hate the mess when moving house, especially after I have bought these much of furniture.

Anyway, one thing good is: we will all get 2 months rental compensation. =D But no more attached bathroom to each room. No more big big room. Where should I put my digital piano then? A problem of having too many furnitures. Fortunately Mr Wong offers to pay the moving cost for us. If not, we will be dead! Thanks for his kindness and concerns.

A lot of things to be considered. Whether should we rent back the same type of house by paying more ( because we are renting under a bargain price) ? or choose to rent a smaller house? I feel sad to leave that house. I get used to that house already. What to do?

What comes around goes around... Cannot do much, I have yet to discuss with my fellow housemates. hope that we will come out with a good solution......

Oh yeah, merry christmas and a happy new year to all of you! Kiss**

May all your christmas and new year wishes come true!

p/s: I hope mine comes true also. =P wish me wish me!

Anger

Sometimes I ask myself: why do people get angry so easily?



Is it because of dissatisfaction of something? Or is it hormone imbalance? I don't know.


Anger. That is a human behaviour.

Always, we talk about controlling anger, but when anger really strikes, how many people can really execute what they have planned before hand about what they will do when they get angry?

What's the point of planning then?

Lost

the golden compass was screened on thursday. haha, and we went and watch it on friday night! the show was not bad. but somehow, my friends said that movie isn't good. i admire the girl, Lyra's bravery. I was blurred by the sudden appearance of the witch and why the man is so willing to help lyra. the story wasn't entirely clear. it didn;t explain a lot of things. perhaps people who have read the novel knows better.





since that is the midnight show, our show ends on 01:30. by then, the one utama shopping mall was eerily silent. And the hero of all, the parking lots entrance doors were mostly closed. we were like exploring the whole one utama to find the entrance to basement 2 parking. we walked through the storeroom of jusco, went through the rubbish dump site, walked through the slope of the car whioch is meant for cars, went up to the mall again after meeting the guard. that was tiring. the whole process has taken almost 30 minutes! what the......! fortunately i wasn't defeated yet, still have to drive. indeed, i felt quite energetic, don't know why.





this is the photo that i took when finding for the parking lots entrance. Look at the closed shops, it was so different from day time.....

The Stage

It doesn't really need a stage to act. What really crucial are the characters. =.="

We are transformed into an actor/actress when something around us had screwed up but we have to make it looks normal. It's just like when few of you doesn't really fond of somebody but you have to live with him/her because of the regular aily interactions.

It's very tiring. The whole idea isn't good. The problem is, when honesty takes place, mentality of that particular person takes place. Some good intention might be percepted as jeolousy, malicious and harmful.

Would you prefer living on the stage? continuosly acting?